HER Lesbian, bi & queer dating

HER was the first app created exclusively for queer, bisexual, and lesbian women, filling a gap in a world where no such dedicated platform existed. HER offers a safe, inclusive space designed around the unique needs and identities of the LGBTQIA+ community, making it easier than ever to find love, friendship, and community.

Your App for Queer Dating

Since launching eight years ago, HER has connected over 15 million users across 125+ countries, facilitating more than 300 million matches, thousands of marriages, and even families. It has evolved into the world’s largest and most iconic dating and community platform focused on lesbian, bisexual, queer women, and gender-non-conforming people worldwide. 

Dating Built for You

Unlike mainstream apps focused on cis men, HER prioritizes queer women, non-binary, and trans people’s experiences. The app’s dating features let you express the unique parts of sapphic culture and connect with people who truly get your identity. Whether you’re searching for a partner or a meaningful connection, HER makes it simple and authentic.

Community Spaces & Events

HER is more than dating — it’s a thriving community. Join smaller group chats based on hobbies or interests, share and engage with the latest LGBTQ+ news, and participate in real-world parties hosted in 15 cities worldwide, from London to Los Angeles. The app helps you discover local events and gives exclusive ticket discounts, helping you expand your social circle.

Safe & Inclusive Environment

Safety is paramount on HER. You control your profile, search preferences, and can verify yourself or others to avoid fake accounts. Features like incognito mode allow discreet browsing until you’re ready to reveal yourself. HER is dedicated to fostering respect and empowerment within a welcoming LGBTQIA+ space.

Global Reach & Accessibility

With over 15 million users in 125+ countries and localized in several languages including English, Spanish, French, German, and Japanese, HER ensures your perfect match or community is just a few clicks away — no matter where you are in the world.

Free & Premium Options

HER offers all core features free: add friends, view profiles, start chats, explore events, and join communities. For enhanced experiences, the premium subscription adds perks like an ad-free interface, real-time online status, advanced filters, incognito mode, and the ability to see who likes you.

FAQs

1. Is the HER app safe?

Yes! HER prioritizes your safety by allowing profile verification, incognito mode, and strict community guidelines. We provide resources to help you navigate the app safely and respectfully.

2. In which countries is HER available?

HER is available in over 125 countries, supporting multiple languages like English, Spanish, French, German, and Japanese.

3. Is the HER app free?

Yes, all core features are free. You can add friends, start chats, view profiles, join communities, and attend events without paying.

4. What does HER Premium offer?

Premium includes an ad-free experience, real-time online status, advanced filters, incognito mode, and the ability to see who likes you, enhancing your dating and social experience.

5. Can I use HER to make friends?

Absolutely! HER is both a dating and community app where you can add friends, join interest-based groups, and find local LGBTQ+ events to grow your social network.

Version History

v3.20.1—16 Apr, 2024

v3.20.0—23 Mar, 2024

v3.19.19—16 Mar, 2024