BUDDY: Gay! Videos & Chat

You’ve probably got a few gay apps on your phone already — we get it. But BUDDY is your new wild card. Think less ads, more action. Less waiting, more watching. Less swiping, more tapping into real, raw, kinky connections.

BUDDY is built for the curious and the confident, for those exploring their kinks or living their best fetish life. Whether you’re here to flirt, chat, watch videos, post classifieds, or plan real meetups — BUDDY brings it all together in one fiery, fun, ad-free app.

Watch & Share Hot Member Videos

Enjoy member-generated videos that reflect the real, sexy, raw side of gay life. Share your own pre-recorded videos privately or let them shine on your profile.

Express Your Kinky Side

Use hashtags to search by fetish, kink, or mood, making it faster than ever to find guys who match your vibe. Whether you're experienced or just curious, BUDDY is a safe space to explore.

Instant Chat & Taps

See someone you like? Send a tap and start chatting immediately. No paywalls or awkward limitations — just real, direct connection with people who want what you want.

Plan & Post with the Kinky Calendar

Want to hook up tonight? Use the private classifieds calendar to let others know what you're into and when you’re available. Feeling social? Host or join group events and connect with new crews.

An Inclusive, Ad-Free Space

BUDDY isn’t run by a faceless tech giant. We’re a scrappy, independent platform built by members of the LGBTQ+ community, for the community. That means no intrusive ads, no limitations on features, and full respect for your privacy and freedom.

Stay Anonymous or Show Off

Whether you're out and proud or prefer to keep things low-key, you control how much you share. Stay anonymous or flaunt your fabulous self — it’s all up to you.

Find Events Near You

Looking for the next party, club night, or sauna session? Our real-time event calendar keeps you in the loop about the best queer happenings around town.

FAQs

1. Is BUDDY really free and ad-free?

Yes! BUDDY is completely free to use, and there are no annoying ads. All core features are available to everyone, no subscription required.

2. Who is BUDDY for?

BUDDY is for gay, bi, and queer men of all kinks and interests — from casual flirts to hardcore fetish fans. Whether you're experienced or just exploring, you're welcome here.

3. How do private classifieds work?

You can post what you're into and when you're available using the calendar feature. It's like creating a kinky to-do list — and people can respond or join in!

4. Can I share videos with other users?

Absolutely. You can share your pre-recorded videos privately in chats or add them to your public profile to attract more buddies.

5. Is my privacy protected on BUDDY?

100%. You control your visibility, and we never sell your data. No tracking, no ads, just your experience — your way.

Version History

v8.0.128—20 Jun, 2024

bug fixes

v8.0.125—24 May, 2024

bug fixes

v8.0.124—18 May, 2024

bug fixes